Diary of a Tired Black Man – DivX Version (Normal Quality), iPod/iPhone Version
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IMDB rating: 2.90 Plot: A humorous and deep look into why relationships fail to work from the point of view of a good black man. It is part scripted and a series of interviews with real people from across the country. |
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Actors: Jean-Louis Jimmy,Kelley Jason E.,Comedy,
Is this why all the good black men date white girls…?
(*PLEASE DONOT DELETE YOU TROLLS/SCRUBS*)
(let me express my Opinion)
Diary of a Tired Black man
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1HVcFyF-m co
They want a partner…not an angry bytch with a chip on her shoulder!
this is why 70% black women are single mothers.
The Man brought her a crib, checks? every month, the car, and they called him a "weak as n" 5 times, totally disrespected. Did he win the conversation? nope, his problem dealing with her in the first place. His whole speech he did not disrespect her once.
Regardless of race if a guy was buying my house, car, paying my bills etc i will feel;
a) Like a prostitute.
b) He is incredibly insecure i am going to leave and he is buying me these things so i will stay – insecurity = turn off.
c) I would be getting too paranoid over his motivies and reason for doing this, it would ruin the relationship.
d) I would feel disrespected that he doesn’t think that i am capable of taking care of my own business and making and handling my own money.
e) I would think he would be a doormat in which i could get anything i wanted out of him, fun for a while, but ultimately not challanging enough and i would get bored and leave.
Saoirse 
| Jun 27, 2009
Everyone plz report this insanely close-minded question!!!!!! Dam trolls…..
Ms. Know It All | Jun 27, 2009
i’m a good black man who dates black women. not all black men date white women.
Acoustic M.J. R.I.P | Jun 27, 2009
he treat ya’ll dat way so he can get in yo pants.
i got dat good good so wen i walk pass dey drop der jeans and shot me up frm de back girl.
Chickenisha Hoeisha Jones | Jun 27, 2009
he was abusing her,i guess u white woman like tht dnt u??
The Prettiestd | Jun 27, 2009
LMAO! That’s only in the movies. I came to realize in REALITY the tired, broke down, left over, the ones Black women don’t want go to the White women. Not to mention, more than half of the time, they get the wife beaters, knowing good and well they can’t fight back. White women can have those.
{Please call me}–>Celestine | Jun 27, 2009
I have always wondered that. I have a black friend that has a good head on his shoulders, and all he dates is white women and has no luck. All the white women he dates wants the gangster type, and my friend is not like that. I also don’t know why you see more black men with white women, than black girls with white men.
I have met the white girls he dates, and they are definetely not this type at all.
Ford Fanatic | Jun 27, 2009
Usually ugly white women go for black men.
abc123… | Jun 27, 2009
Not necessarily. some men actually prefer white women. Some black men have a problem with black women. Some men just want to procreate a mixed child. Some men are color struck. Some men cant handle a black woman. All black women don’t trash talk their men. Most of those type of women are ghetto and disrespectful. A black woman just will not let a man say ANY and EVERYthing to her. Black women stand their ground. I personally don’t care about a black man that much because they have chips on their shoulders with black women. Never would i marry a black man unless he was respectful and cherished me as a black woman. Some people i know have a white GF and they say that white girls will just do anything and listen to whatEVER you say without even standing up for what they want. The black race is diminishing. Black men want a white girl? Then so be it
cherere | Jun 27, 2009
No I’m engaged to wonderful good black man most good black men I know are with black women. Some date IR but that’s their choice.
Harmony (R.I.P. MJ) | Jun 27, 2009
Only hot white girls are free to date whatever race and all the black men they want. Any woman in 2009 and beyond trying to scream how she isn’t attracted to a man with more natural muscle mass and a larger penis JUST because he is black is full of crap, insecure and a looser and probably dates real mediocre fags…
GOD | Jun 27, 2009
White women’s opinion of black women & a brother’s response
Enjoy.
Dear Jamie:
I’m sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Black male
readers.
I am a White female who is engaged to a Black male-good-looking,
educated and loving. I just don’t understand a lot of Black female’s
attit udes about our relationship.
My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst Black women
were slim to none. As he said they were either too fat, too loud, too
mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or carrying too
much excess baggage.
Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly
approached by Black men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world. If
Black women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don’t
they look at themselves and make some changes.
I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when we’re out in
public. I would like to hear from some Black men about why we are so
appealing and coveted by them.
Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for one of us Charles
Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams,
Quincy Jo nes, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi
Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius , Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry
Fishburne, Wesley Snipes…
I could go on and on. But, right now, I’m a little angry and that is
why I wrote this so hurriedly. Don’t be mad with us White women because so
many of your men want us. Get your acts together and learn from us and
we may lead you to treat your men better. If I’m wrong, Black men, let
me know.
Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA
RESPONSE
Dear Jamie:
I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White
Girl.
Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old black man. I graduated
from one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta , Georgia with
a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management. I have a good job a t a
major corporation and have recently purchased a house. So, I consider
myself to be among the ranks of successful black men.
I will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just want to
set the record straight of why black men date white women. Back in the
day, one of the biggest reasons why black men dated white women was
because they were considered easy.
The black girls in my neighborhood were raised in the church. They were
very strict about when they lost their virginity and who they lost it
to. Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone
who would give it up easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to
the white girls.
Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date white women because
they are docile and easy to control. A lot of black men, because of
insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by
the strength of our black women. We are afraid that our woman will be
more successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and
own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many black men look for a more
docile woman. Someone we can control.
I have talked to numerous black men and they continuously comment on
how easy it is to control and walk over their white women. I just want to
set the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl to know that not
all successful b lack men date white women.
Brothers like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris
Chestnut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth ‘Babyface’ Edmonds ,
Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong black women And,
to flip the script, there are numerous white men, in and out of the spot
light, who openly or secretly desire black women over white women. Ted
Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few.
I just don’t want a disgusted white girl to be misinformed Stop
thinking that because you are white that you are some type of goddess. Remember,
when black Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were ruling
Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt , you were over in the caves of
Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with clubs.
Read your history!
It was the black woman that taught you how to cook and season your
food. It was the black woman that taught you how to raise your children. It
was black women who were breast feeding and raising your babies during
slavery.
It is the black woman that had to endure watching their fathers,
husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail. Black women
were born with two strikes against them: being black and being a woman.
And, through all this, Still They Rise!
It is because of the black women’s strength, elegance, power, love and
beauty that I could> never> date anyone except my black Queen. It is
not just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not
the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and shades that I
love them.
Elanshaw | Jun 27, 2009
I’m not a good black man and I date white girls. I’m a great black man.
Gentle Mintos | Jun 27, 2009
The clip shows a small part of the problem but not the big picture. Most black women, once they hit their 30’s and are ready to settle down, would love a guy like that. Some may not appreciate a man like that, but most would.
I think drugs (use and sale of), lack of a quality education, and a lack of good paying jobs, have contributed to the decline of the black community more than black women being angry. Guys are on the streets, killing each other, for the right to sell dope to our own people on some land that doesn’t even belong to us. The ones who don’t get killed eventually end up in jail, that’s one of the main reasons why there are so many unmarried black women.
Many women have a reason to be angry because they have been dealing with sorry "men" who want to be players instead of a one woman man. Then again, they can only be mad at themselves because they chose that sorry man in the first place. Once these ladies realize the men they’ve been dealing with all these years are no good, they search for a "good man" who has since then turned to women of other races who appreciate them for who they are.
Lee | Jun 27, 2009
Perhaps.
Just V | Jun 28, 2009
